Of late, Her lawyer smarts seem to be getting in the way of her moral judgement. I see her more and more putting aside that which is very essential in faith and reason mainly just that, 'faith and morals'.
Pope Benedict and Social Doctrine says that a good society can not be accomplished if there are not virtuous people in that society.
And that word virtue(ous) is not one mentioned very much anymore and even less when it comes to judging whether something in society is right or wrong.
Tolerance is a word which seems to be taking it's place."You mustn't judge [something to be right or wrong]".
I don't thing that is a good message to teach. we make judgements thousands of times a day.
I wonder if Ms Kelly, a new Mom, will go the strictly "the law says" when raising her children.
The law says "abortion is legal"
The law says "gay marriage is legal"
The law says "schools can hand out condoms and take you child to get an abortion" without a parents consent.
The law says that you have a right to mutilate your body in a transgender operation.
...and if you disagree with any of this you insight violence and intolerance.
I wonder if as a parent how far Ms Kelly will go when applying her parental guidance?
"Gee, I guess your right child of mine. If the law says it's legal to do any of these and numerous other things, I shouldn't discourage you from gong for it."
As a parent and now a grandparent, I know a little about raising children and yes children are influenced by everything around them. They will imitate whatever they see, whether it's Wrestle Mania or violent video games to smoking, swearing, dressing, and what they eat and drink. It's not unusual to see younger than teenage kid drinking energy drinks or asking Mom or Dad to order them a Star Bucks...as if they are lacking in energy. or need the caffeine.Hey everyone's doing it. It's legal and it's advertised everywhere.
That's why we are parents, so we can guide them through the minefields. Just because you bring that guidance to your children doesn't mean you're telling your kids that they should hate those that do those things. That they should bring violence into the situation whenever you confront those participating.
In fact it's more prevelent that if you disagree with these practices you will encounter violence from those that support them.
It's not uncommon when I visit an abortion clinic for a prayer vigil I will be cursed at 'flipped off' , even spit on (this hasn't happened to me..spitting that is, but I know of those that this has happened to).
All Doctor Ablow is saying is that celebrating the decisions of Chaz Bono and let's use her real name Chastity Bono, is not what I would say is a growing moment in a child's life or a Teen's life for that matter. That's when the real parenting needs to be strong.
I think Ms Kelly as a Mom has a lot to learn. As a commentator lawyer, she is just wrong to say Dr Ablow is insighting violence.
As for Chasity (Chaz) Bono, I will pray for her. I pray that God will protect her and shower her with his graces, that she may see the error of her ways. I realize she as lead a very troubled life. I do wish her the best.
And I hope and pray for Ms Kelly. I still like to hear her point of views.
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